Control of Others
As soon as you love someone your ego goes crazy
and tries to take control. This happens to everyone.
Love brings every shadow up to the surface
so it can be witnessed and transformed.
You are either willing to look or you aren’t.
Love gives you homework to do.
If you don’t become aware of your fears and insecurities,
they will eventually destroy your relationship.
Don’t turn the blessing of love into a curse.
Acknowledge your fears to your partner
and ask for help in walking through them.
From Everyday Wisdom by Paul Ferrini